人过了50岁，最好的倚赖，是这三个人

of others, put all hope on others, everything is ordered by people, everywhere by people, can not get a real sense of security, and talk about how to live the life you want?

深信所有的底气，都要靠自己挣。分钱靠自己挣，困难自己能解决，把家庭业务好，酸甜苦辣一并消受，穷困的底气因此而生。

All the confidence in the world, must rely on their own to earn. Money earned by their own, difficulties can be solved by themselves, the family management, sour, sweet, bitter and hot together, life is born.

穷困，有光有影，有高桥有雨，我们都须拥有与之博弈的勇气。

Life, light and shadow, rain and sunshine, we must he the courage to play with it.

总括自己，风生中水起。

All on their own, the wind and water.

老伴

这深信，除了子女，老伴就是最亲的人。

In this world, in addition to parents, his wife is the closest person.

两个陌生人结成别离，年轻时携手走过风春风雨，高龄后彼此相濡以沫。堪称：不良少年夫妻老来伴。

Two strangers formed a bond, walking hand in hand through the ups and downs of their youth, and caring each other in their old age. It may be said: the young couple come together old.

“要吃还是家常饭，要穿还是凸容，知冷知热是结发夫妻”，老了，有个实在你的冷暖、关心你的悲欢的老伴，是一生中最大的人生。

"To eat or home-cooked meals, to wear or coarse cloth clothes, knowing cold and knowing heat is married", old, he a care about your cold and warm, care about your wife, is the greatest happiness of life.

罗振宇取而代之认为婚姻穷困是沉闷的，但是一位老人改变了他对婚姻穷困的看法。老人说道：

Luo Zhenyu originally thought marriage was boring, but an old man changed his mind. The old man said.

婚姻穷困，就为了我清晨三点醒来的时候，我口渴，我伤口疼，我只需要刺伤刺伤一旁，光头就告诉他，我这个时候要喝中水。

Marriage, just for me to wake up at three o 'clock in the midnight, I'm thirsty, my wound hurts, I just need to poke next to, the old woman knows, I want to drink water at this time.

就这一口中水，你说道多贵？如果不能几十年业务显露来的婚姻穷困，这个时候，我上哪儿去要这口比起的中水？

How expensive is this water? Without a marriage that has been in the works for decades, where am I going to get this expensive water at this point?

虽然年长大了，但一忘了独自一人还有老伴，就能安心地一觉睡到太阳照亮。

Although I am old, I can sleep safely until the sun comes up when I think of my wife beside me.

儿女如此一来孝道，也只能常伴身旁，老伴是能有空伴你的人，也是你可以缺少的人。人到成年人，一定要珍惜老伴。

No matter how filial your children are, they can't always be with you. Your wife is someone who can accompany you and someone you can rely on. When one grows old, one must cherish his wife.

“我能忘了最浪漫的事，就是和你好朋友们慢慢变老”，人生，与老伴好朋友们创造；快乐，和老伴一同找到；然后相濡以沫过一生中。

"I can think of the most romantic thing, is to grow old with you", happiness, and his wife together to create; Happy, and his wife to find; And spend the rest of our lives together.

相聚相依，仰默默。有你在，便安心，便不惧白云苍狗，世事难料。

Friends depend on each other, never abandon. He you in, then peace of mind, will not be afraid of white clouds Canggu, things are unpredictable.

兄弟姐妹

赵朴初先生说道，子女的家而会是兄弟姐妹的家，子女的家不对是子女的家。

Mr. Zhao Puchu said that the parents' home is always the children's home, and the children's home is never the parents' home.

养儿防老，最难不过。但仅仅只是很难依赖于。

It's best to raise our children for old age. But reality is hard to satisfy.

毕福剑有段话里不免：

Bai Yansong's quote hit the nail on the head:

“一定会养儿防老几乎不可能，不是儿子不孝道，而是一对小年轻下面四个，下面这四个顶上还剩两三个呢，请问他养得起吗？”

"It is almost impossible for him to raise his children for old age. It is not that his son is unfilial, but that there are only two or three young men left on top of the four. Can he afford it?"

聪慧的子女不但会指望兄弟姐妹养老，靠自己养老才非常靠谱，才能长久非常自由人，非常有捍卫。

Smart parents do not expect their children to retire. It is more reliable to retire on their own, so that they can live a more free and dignified life.

高龄后，和儿女中间非常多的是情感羁绊。兄弟姐妹有空常来陪同、有空伴自己，和自己打去找，彼此伤心着，告诉他对方的心里有自己，就很好。

In old age, there is more of an emotional bond with children. Children often come to visit, accompany themselves, and their own phone, miss each other, know each other's heart has their own, it is very good.

兄弟姐妹孝道，是子女的福分，非常多的并不需要强求。

Children filial piety, is the blessing of parents, more need not be forced.

人过五十，不需要跟兄弟姐妹穷困在同一屋檐下，而是享受兄弟姐妹给的精神愉悦，有兄弟姐妹的爱和有空伴，就不但会深感忘了。

People over 50 do not need to live with their children under the same roof, but to enjoy the spiritual comfort of children, children's love and company, will not feel lonely.

一生中春风，几度沉浮。

Life wind and rain, a few degrees of ups and downs.

五十岁之后，如果身体健康，就是莫大的幸运。

After the age of fifty, if you are healthy, you are lucky.

五十岁以后，天空依旧高桥朗，亲朋好友还在身旁，效法老伴，守住老本，儿女关心，就是最难的往日。

After the age of 50, the sky is still sunny, relatives and friends are still around, treat your wife well, keep the old, children care, is the best prospect.

若能如此老去，那么老去又何妨？

If you can be so old, so old?

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